Today was a birthday party for my niece’s 4th birthday. Her actual birthday is tomorrow, but the weekend is always better for a party!
Every time I see this beautiful, sweet little girl, my heart melts and I fall head over heels, just like I did the very first time I saw her four years ago.
The day is still clear in my mind. It was two weeks before her due date when the phone rang early on Tuesday July 10th 2012. My sister’s water had broke and they were on their way to the hospital. A few hours later I was in my car, driving from Oakville to Windsor in what felt like the longest car trip imaginable.
My excitement at becoming an aunt was unfiltered and unashamed. I would tell anyone who would listen that I was going to be an aunt. I’m sure my friends and co-workers were quite sick of hearing me talk about it.
She didn’t make her appearance until the very early hours of July 11th, and I saw her for the first time later that day.
There was so much I didn’t know before that moment when I first held her.
I didn’t know I could love someone so much or so quickly.
I didn’t know how fiercely protective I could be of another human being. When the doctor came in to check her over and she started to cry, it took every ounce of willpower I had not to snatch her from him and then knock him out for making her cry.
I didn’t know that simply holding her and watching her while she slept would bring such joy.
I didn’t know that she would consume my thoughts every day, and how anxious I’d be until I was with her again.
I didn’t know that every time I shopped or ran an errand, I’d fine something that I just had to get her.
I didn’t know how much I would miss her when I wasn’t with her.
And I didn’t know that once I moved back, I’d never want to leave because I could not stand the thought of not being near her, and there for her as she grows.
I just didn’t know…
Four years later, none of the above has changed, except that if possible, I love her even more.
She is perfect. She can do no wrong. Even when she misbehaves, she is still the most adorable thing on earth. She is the smartest little girl I have ever known. She is the funniest little girl I have ever met. She is precious, angelic and holds the key to my heart.
How did I ever live without this beautiful little person?
I look at her and find such happiness seeing pieces of people I love in her. I even see pieces of me in her – something that gives me more joy then I ever thought possible.
Loving her gives me strength. She gives me strength to get through the hard days because I need to be here for her. I need to walk through life with her. I need to make sure she is happy. I need to protect her from harm.
I didn’t know being an aunt would be such an important job. I didn’t know how much I would love it.
And I didn’t know that one sweet girl could bring me such unending joy.
Happy 4th Birthday to my gorgeous niece!